Oh well, I agree with what you said Sook Fung, very realistic and practical. Relationships not just about BGR, it's also about family and friends too. Starting one may not easy, but maintaining one is even tougher. Think of it, how long can you put up with one's horrendous attitude that you can't take? Some may say Yes, for long but some might just say No, not at all. There must be something special, a bond or a chemistry, that holds two or more people together. This takes time to build, to maintain, and to achieve. Well, I am talking about relationship as a whole irregardless of what kind of relationship.
Well, as for our case, it's definitely much tougher to hold on as one, because it's the seven of us. It isn't a really big group, but it's definitely not a small number and an-easy-to-hold-on size. Get it through our heads and hearts, get away with all those preferances. I don't know about you guys, but I always find it an excellent thing to tag on each other's blog or writing testimonals for one another, expressing my love and encouragement for one another. That's why I would always leave my footsteps behind to show I care and I love. Sounds like a very shallow way to show and tell, but at least you make the other party aware. Little things like this can help, and of course make a big difference. Perhaps you guys don't know, but I really feel extremely elated to see messages from you girls, be it on my blog, friendster, msn or whatever communicating device there is! I find that sometimes such things get so rare that it is often left forgotten, which I find it a really sad thing.
I certainly hope our friendship is not that superficial, because we have been through so much together. And the reason for us staying together as one is not with the mindset that there will always be someone for me to lean my back on when I am down, but to be the one to let others lean on when they are down. In a self-centered relationship, things definitely don't go far. I guess superficial isn't the word to be used on our friendship. Because to me, you guys is always a group of lovelies that I can just open up my heart and talk through matters, be it relationship, friendship, burdens, anticipation or what not! You girls practically make up my world. What do you think?
As agreed with Sook Fung, this shall be our regular update place yah? (Hopefully this is not only when it's the hot period. You know what I mean.) Please please please! I am looking forward to drop by NP very often for lunch, and you guys better come to SP for lunch too yah?! I think we shall just have a SNP (Singapore-Ngee Ann) campus around! :D
Loving you guys tonnes and truckloads! <33
THE POWER OF SEVEN,
Kellyn
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